Tuesday, September 15, 2026

Retirement is not the End, just the Beginning

I still don't feel retired.  My friend, Judy said, you wonder where you found the time to do anything when you were working.  She was right.  But since I retired I had my own problems, then Parke was in the ER yesterday with now another UTI.  Today I had the MRI and now I am about to do my final Trustee's Report for Church.  I won't get the books back until next summer.

So every day - before I know it - its dinner time.

I just past the Angel that my manager, Nicole had given me with a bag of gifts.  The Angel has these words printed on it "Never underestimate the Difference you made and the lives you touched" It made think.  I hope I am still doing that.

Sundays I teach Sunday School, I had a conversation with Duncan, a 4th grader, about fried chicken, we both want to try the new Dominican Fried chicken place in Catasauqua.  I think I might explore the place and maybe even write a blog about it.  

I sincerely hope that I still touch lives.  From the people who just walk by me while I read out front and I smile at, to the children I teach on Sunday.  I hope I touch the lives of people I stand in line with and strike up a conversation with.

Do you ever wonder whose life you might touch.  We will hardly ever know the results that come about from it. I don't need to know.  You know why?  Because I will just keep trying to do better. 

Remember:

  • No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” – Aesop 

  • “Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for kindness.” – Lucius Annaeus Seneca

  • “Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.” – Lao Tzu

So, let's try kindness today, smile, and be gentle. You know why don't you, because that's Another day in Catasauqua

Friday, September 11, 2026

Is it really 25 Years

 Probably like most Americans over the age of 40, I remember 9/11/01 like it was yesterday.  

First it was a phone call from my bff, Cathy, who told me a plane at hit one of the World Trade Centers.  A building I was in once.  I could not fathom what she was saying.  Then the second one hit.  

Twenty five years ago the internet wasn't what it is now - I remember my co-worker, Oliver trying to see it on our computers but CNN was frozen, TMI coming in at once.  

The radio went to just reporting about what was going on as best as it could.  

The Tower falls, people run.  

I was worried about Cathy's niece, but she said that she doesn't work in that area.  We later found out she was there, just got off the subway when the second one hit.  She got out of there and was ok.  

At work I felt stuck, I cried with my other bff, Annette.  Not knowing what was happening was horrifying.  We could only get bits and pieces of what was going on.  The phone system to Washington wasn't working.  There was another plane it hit the Pentagon,

The fourth plane never hit its target, the passengers heroically overcame the highjackers and they crashed in Shanksville, Pennsylvania.

My son worked for Exxon at the time, and my DIL at the time worked as a teacher.  I couldn't get a hold of either for the longest time - they lived in Virginia but were very close to DC.  

When I got home that night, all I could do was watch it on TV, by this time Parke had seen it over and over and didn't want to watch it.  But whenever I could, I did.  

How do you recover from that, we did, we flew our flags, we gathered in our places of worship and we prayed.  We came together, we were the United States of America.  One people, one country and we were proud.

I could say something about our politics today, but let's not tarnish the memory of those who died and the first responders.

Let's remember how we came together.

and that's Another day in Catasauqua

  

Wednesday, September 9, 2026

The Daffiness of Dementia

As if my mother is not funny enough, she has been hit by UTI's and Dementia.  Today she had me look out the window to see all the chairs outside at the neighbor's house.  I did not see any.  She said they probably took them inside then.  She has seen a lot of people go in.

Poor Ida, my neighbor, if she only lived the stories that my mom came up with, she would be exhausted.  Like the other day.  She saw 12 women, all dressed up and with lots of makeup on,
dancing on the roof, yes, the roof.  It was a wild party.  Supposedly the women saw my mom watching them and waved (how nice of them) and she quickly got away from the window.  I missed the whole thing.  Can you imagine?

Usually when she starts hallucinating like this it means another UTI or the continuation of the one she has had.  She drinks plenty of water and goes to the bathroom somewhat normally right now.  And now, I wash her every other day, so she has been keeping cleaner.  But if the hallucinations continue - or get worse I will need to contact the doctor again.

My mom has always been a source of entertainment.  Sometimes my true stories have been funnier than anything I could make up.  

I am used to her dementia - but not the hallucinations, sometimes they catch me off guard.  Like the day the soldiers came and covered Ida's house with a white sheet.   The whole house!  Well I argued, note to self, don't even try to do that.  

Meanwhile, I think I might finally feel retired.  I have nothing I have to do today.  So I picked another book from the "Someday I will read" pile and later I will enjoy the weather outside and read.

and that will be, Another Day in Catasauqua

Monday, September 7, 2026

Is it a Holiday today? What is Labor Day


 So I just went through my first week of retirement and I really haven't noticed much.  More like a weeks' vacation to get things done.  BUT of course, guess what happened.

I basically could not get up.  Not off the sofa or the toilet.  It took me by a shocking surprise.  Especially the toilet.  I have since stacked a bunch of pillows on the sofa so I sit higher and I have devised a way to get off the toilet; but, in the meantime I went to the Doctor.  

Well, it wasn't good news.  I thought it was my knees.  I need two new ones but must lose about 40 pounds first before my doctor will do them.  But there was so much more happening.  First my knee went numb.  I thought maybe years of putting stuff on my knees made them numb.  But then the whole leg went numb.  Sometimes when I stood most of the time when I sat and one muscle across the front of my thigh hurt like hell.

Turns out - pinched nerve in my back and I see the spine specialist tomorrow.  Most likely a shot in the back or (I didn't like hearing this) surgery.

So, please say prayer for healing, I would greatly appreciate it.

Anyway, it is Labor Day.  What is Labor Day - from Wikipedia - 

Labor Day is a federal holiday in the United States celebrated on the first Monday of September to honor and recognize the American labor movement and the works and contributions of laborers to the development and achievements in the United States.[1][2][3]

Beginning in the late 19th century, as the trade union and labor movements grew, trade unionists proposed that a day be set aside to celebrate labor. "Labor Day" was promoted by the Central Labor Union and the Knights of Labor, which organized the first parade in New York City. By the time it became an official federal holiday in 1894, thirty states in the U.S. officially celebrated Labor Day.[4

 

In the late 1800s, at the height of the Industrial Revolution in the United States, the average American laborer worked 12-hour days, seven days a week, in order to eke out a basic living. Despite restrictions in some states, children as young as 5 or 6 toiled in mills, factories and mines across the country, earning a fraction of their adult counterparts’ wages.  (Holy Crap)  

 

First Labor Day Parade

Many of these events turned violent during this period, including the infamous Haymarket Riot of 1886, in which several Chicago policemen and workers were killed. Others gave rise to longstanding traditions: On September 5, 1882, 10,000 workers took unpaid time off to march from City Hall to Union Square in New York City, holding the first Labor Day parade in U.S. history.

The idea of a “workingmen’s holiday,” celebrated on the first Monday in September, caught on in other industrial centers across the country, and many states passed legislation recognizing it. Congress would not legalize the holiday until 12 years later, when a watershed moment in American labor history brought workers’ rights squarely into the public’s view. On May 11, 1894, Chicago employees of the Pullman Palace Car Company went on strike to protest wage cuts and the firing of union representatives.

On June 26, the American Railroad Union, led by Eugene V. Debs, called for a boycott of all Pullman railway cars, crippling railroad traffic nationwide. To break the Pullman strike, the federal government dispatched troops to Chicago, unleashing a wave of riots that resulted in the deaths of more than a dozen workers and the arrest and imprisonment of Debs.

I never realized that Labor Day had such a violent start.  My grandmother did talk about going to work in a mill at a young age.  She had to stand on boxes to do the work because she was so small.  Now, you can work from home.  I can write this blog in my living room on my laptop. 

In fact, Labor Day is Another day in Catasauqua

 


Tuesday, September 1, 2026

RETIREMENT

 Well, it happened, I am retired - this is day 2.  First thing I would like to tell you about retirement is that the days go faster.  How comes 8 hours at work takes an eternity while 8 hours at home goes by in a flash.

Day 1 I did as I said I would - slept in, read and then went to Aldi's.  Later I went to the Catasauqua Library for my Crochet Group.  

Day 2 is busier - got up - took care of Mom, then she had a video doctor appointment at 12 noon,  The doctor was 45 minutes late, but we finally got that over with.  Then I made a charcutier board for tonight's Friendship Circle, went down to church and hung a welcome back banner.  Now I am home writing to you.  I have things to do for next few days.  I really don't see me getting bored soon.  

I worked 50 years, 48 of them in Title Insurance so I think it was time to call it quits.  My legs have been giving me more problems than usual - I thought they would get a little better.  Darn

I want to finally do things that I had put off before .  Go places, see things and do things that you just don't get to do when you work all the time.  

Who knows what time will bring.

especially in Catasauqua.

And that's another day in Catasauqua